Gun Down

“Forgiveness beats pulling the trigger. The life you save is your own” #gundown When conflict happens the first thing we tend to do is kick our chair back, fortify (gather allies), and leave the room of that relationship. That needs to change immediately. It’s just so easy to so build up our side of the story to where it’s the “ONLY” side when in reality … Continue reading Gun Down


Ever walk into someone’s house when they’ve just had a family fight? The atmosphere is charged, the kids are hiding in their rooms, the dog is whimpering in the corner and no one is making eye contact with each other. Careful what you say or BOOM! If it’s not an explosion it will be the long freeze session where nobody speaks for days. We all … Continue reading Eggshells

Fair Fight or Street Fight?

First of all to all of our peacemaking friends out there I’d like to say I love you, I married one of you but when push comes to shove… Conflict is part of life with people. Conflict is unavoidable and actually unhealthy to try and live without. Marriages where couples never fight have a higher percentage ending in divorce. Weird. I’ve been talking recently about … Continue reading Fair Fight or Street Fight?